10.17.2007

An Ode to Snow White


(Melai, in lieu of the article I promised, I hope this will do for the meantime. Para sa ating mga kababaihan ang post na ito............)

As far back as I can remember, I've always considered myself an eccentric. As a kid (until now), my favorite tales were Foolish Frances, and The Snow Queen. I never (and I mean NEVER) enjoyed reading fairy tales like Snow White, Cinderella, or Sleeping Beauty.

Why in the world were they considered heroines in the first place? What was it they had that made them stand out? Which quality was it that made them superior to their next door neighbor or even their stepsisters?

Maybe I envied them. Maybe not.

Yes, they were kind, no doubt about that. But not 'saintly'.

Maybe they were smart. But not 'ingenious'.

What made them such 'trophies' worthy enough for Prince Charming to risk his neck for? (I don't even know why he's such a catch himself when all I know about him is that he's filthy stinkin' rich and always on a white horse, but that's another topic................)

I'm sure you know why. They were all stunningly gorgeous.

Fairy tales like Snow White made me even more insecure than I already was. I used to curse the cute girls in grade school. Just because they were so darn white, they caught all they boys' attention. Even in high school where only the va-va-voom sexy ones got dates to the prom. I would imprecate them because they had what I did not.

We are at an age where physical beauty is such a commodity. It's so commercialized. I, for one, used to think that the only people who claimed to have 'inner beauty' were the ones who lacked it's physical component. I used to think that the only way to get a man to notice you was if you had flawless white skin, a 36-24-36 frame, and a face to rival any beauty queen.

I look at modern day philanthropists like (the late) Princess Diana, Queen Rania, or even Angelina Jolie. If they weren't as stunning as they are, would they still be as hounded as they are by the media? Would they still be exemplified as modern day heroines?

What about women like Marie Curie and Mother Teresa. Or Filipinas like Gabriela Silang and Teodora Alonzo. Or Margaret Thatcher, Indira Gandhi, Ellen Johnson-Sirleaf, and Corazon Aquino. To me, they are the epitome of beauty.

Maybe it's called midlife or probably a certain level of maturity to be able to see past the external. There's some beauty we see, some we even hear, but the most resplendent, we feel inside.

Physical beauty is so f***in' overrated.

So here's to us plain janes . Sheer, unadulterated, non-airbrushed (or photoshoped) beauties. Myself, Melai, Ate Sienna, Mommy, Tita Loi, Ate Mel, Tany, Telly, Celina, and all Pinays out there.............. Let us bask in splendiferous glory and our beautiful Kayumanggi skin. Mabuhay!!!


P.S. Melai, I've only been blogging for a little over 6 weeks pa lang. Pinasakit mo ang ulo ko. I honestly don't know any other bloggers except for you and Ate Sienna. I still owe you an article though :-) saka isaw at yema...... haha

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10 Comments:

Anonymous melai said...

hehehehe! cheers! para sa akin nga tong post na to :)swak na swak..

alam mo bang malaki na ko nung nakilala ko yang mga herodes na mga bidang yan sa mga fairy tales?

una kasi wala kaming tv noon, madalas nakikipanood lang kami pero mas madalas yung magkantahan na lang kami sa may bintana kesa sa manood ng tv

at nung nagka tv naman kami wrestling ang madalas panoorin kasi tatay ko mas matapang sa bahay namin lol!!

ei bonggacious ka ineng ... di ko alam na 6 weeks ka pa lang nag bablag ....welcome to blagging pala mabuhay ka at natutuwa ako't napadpad ka sa blog ko :)

keep it up..blog lang ng blog :)

mabuhay ang mga swanget nyahahaha!!!!

teka pala ako lang yung swanget lol!

me utang ka pa. di yan ang tag ko lol!

10/17/2007 06:49:00 PM  
Blogger black_mamba said...

hello uli.

haha naaliw ako sa mga komento mo. si Sedira ang anak kong ahas. lab na lab ko yun.

oo, 6 weeks pa lang ako nag ba blog papaano kelan lang kami nagka DSL. low tech noh??? grabe. o siya. mula sa kaibuturan ng puso ko, salamt uli ng marami.

P.S. Opo, alam ko may atraso pa akong post haha..........

10/17/2007 07:06:00 PM  
Anonymous melai said...

eto lang pala mababasa ko e nabasa ko na to e wahehehehehe....sensya na ha makulet ako e :) ilang taon na sya? mukhang ang lungkot lungkot mo sa paglaki nya ha ..oh my sabagay yung anak ko nga limang taon pa lang yata e ang lungkot lungkot ko na kapag naiisip kong baka maaga mabuntes lol!!! hay mga nanay nga naman oo :)

10/17/2007 07:15:00 PM  
Blogger black_mamba said...

aba syempre comment dun, comment dito....... haha pamparami ng comment, tamo na mas mababaw ako hehe..............

4 years old na ang bunso ko hehe....... pero sa daigdig niya, pwedeng pwede na mag-asawa haha.........

salamat muli at mabuhay ka!!!!!!

P.S. syempre ipaskil ko din to sa yo para bongga haha

10/17/2007 07:19:00 PM  
Anonymous melai said...

susme apat na taon? akala ko naman mag-aasawa na wahehehehe kung maka drama ka naman lol!! sabagay ina ka kaya di kita dapat pagtawanan :) ...natatawa lang ako sensya na lol!
parang ako kapag nag-isip maya maya pagtatawanan ko rin sarili ko :)

hehehe pagod ka na ba? lol!

10/17/2007 07:23:00 PM  
Blogger black_mamba said...

haha.....

ikaw pala masarap kakulitan hehe.........

dati puro kapatid ko lang ang kinukulit ko magbasa ng blog ko hehe...... pinagtataguan na nila ako ngayon hehe.......

o siya lalarga na naman ako, mamaya kukulitin kita uli hehe.........

10/17/2007 07:35:00 PM  
Anonymous melai said...

mwahehehehe! kulitan ba hanap mo?
dami ako nyan lol!

10/17/2007 10:54:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

mentality na ata ng pinoy..nalahat ng sa iba better..pero mga amerikano nmn nagpapaitim..
ok na nga sa atin...sa gitna...not too white nor too dark...
hehehhe!

=)

10/18/2007 06:14:00 AM  
Anonymous elay said...

that was one great read...a toast to all pinay's out there..

p.s.
same here..never liked those damsels in distress..and snow queen is definitely my fave fairy tale too =)

10/19/2007 04:24:00 AM  
Blogger black_mamba said...

thank you elay.........

10/21/2007 07:25:00 PM  

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